Doing Your Best Friend
I think I might be luckier then most. I have two (female) best friends. I'm not in love with either of them though. Not in the sexual sense anyway, however, there's this common misconception that female best friends do "it" with each other at some point in their friendship. Throughout my life I've been told that people assume my best friends and I (not at the same time) are romantically involved. I don't know why they say it. I mean, is it just me (us) or is that just silly? I'm not doing my best friends!...but maybe it's not so much of a misconception. Two women I know were having a conversation about the issue of girls who experiment with other girls. One friend said to the other that she had in fact experimented with her best friend when they were younger, and then asked, "Well....haven't you and Jessica..???" She asked it as if everyone does it. As if we were the only best friends on the planet that haven't been up close and personal with each others fee-fee's. NO we have not -- thank you very much. I have not done "it" with either of them. And we haven't had pillow fights in our undies either.
Now it's not like I don't know that indeed some girls experiment with other girls. I'm not even going to be so bold as to say that I haven't had a minor moment way back when.... I confess: In the 1st grade I was involved in a French kiss with another female first grader. We just simply could not believe that adults participated in that kind of activity and decided we'd just see what all the fuss was about...but what I am saying is that if I was going to do "it" with a girl it would NOT be with one of my best friends. How do you switch from talking about a boys penis size to grabbing each others boobs? How do you go from watching Beaches to making mad passionate chick love? And why would you complicate a beautiful, trusting, comforting, "do I look fat in these jeans?" friendship -- with doing "it"? HOW DO YOU DO IT WITHOUT LAUGHING YOUR ASS OFF?
More power to the chicks that do their best friends but I'm just not doing mine. And they don't want to do me either.
posted by Jessiedc28 @ 5:34 PM
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I've never had an urge to fiddle with my best friend's faddles. Haven't done it. Don't plan to. I have my own playground, I don't need another just like it.
I much prefer the male thingy-ma-bob.
And, sometimes I get the giggles messing around with my man. I cannot even fathom how it would be with another woman. Don't even want to try.
Jeanette, I feel ya girl! (well..not feeeeeel ya feel ya, but I feel ya!) And I love your fiddle faddle comment. Made me hit the floor laughing!
THANK GOD!!!
I must confess that Hubby and I thought for a while that you and a certain newly web were in a physical way. She went everywhere with you and there were never mentions of any men in either of your lives at the time. We just thought you were "enjoying each other company". Sorry! Now we know that is not true of course!
ALL GIRLS HAVE PILLOW FIGHTS IN THEIR UNDIES! I WON;T HEAR ANY DIFFERENT!
ROFL
But seriously, good post. :)
Never once had I had the urge or desire to fool around or experiment with my breast, er uh, best friend. haha Kiddin. Seriously tho, I think its just a misconception, when two women are together all the time, guys especially "hope" that the women are doing it... so I think they pass on this dream rumor to others.
sorry I forgot to sign my previous posts!!!
~HarleyQuinn
You're kind of cute and all, but, um, yea, I'm not doin' ya!
Don't lie Lizzy -- you know you want me. LOL At first I thought that people just said that about you and I...but then with Holly...it never went away. Maybe I just pick hot friends to be friends with...I can't help that!!! :0) But honest to Goodness..if I was gay...you'd be mine. But then I guess we'd have to stop getting in to cotton ball fights, screaming fights, and crying over sappy movies...on second hand I think I'll keep you as is.
Thanks I appreciate it. But don't worry I'll still let you get in the occassional boob waving poke.
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